Change Your Life: 5 Steps to Creating Positive Habits
We all go through this process of creating new habits at an early age for many of the tasks we perform on a daily basis. Some of those tasks include: standing up, walking, talking, etc… We have committed the mechanical know-hows to our subconscious mind and over time have developed the belief system we need to be able to perform those tasks and many other ones mindlessly.
A perfect example of this is learning to open a door. You no longer have to think about nor struggle with opening a door. You also don’t have to wonder what you need to do first or whether the door will open at all. You know it will open. You learned and struggled with this once as a child growing up and have done it so many times after that it’s become a habit. All you have to do now is give physical self the order to open the door and you unconsciously (mindlessly) take all the steps necessary to open the door.
To succeed in any other endeavor, you need to apply this same process and effort to create positive habits. Below are 5 steps that will help you with the creation of any habit.
1. Awareness
Change starts with awareness. And if you’re ever going to succeed at making changes in your life, you have to know that YOU need to make a change. You have to know what to want for you to desire it.
2. Desire
Desire will drive you to see the change through. The desire you have to be a better version of yourself or to see the positive outcome that the new habit will yield is what’s going to keep pushing you onward when things seems to get tough. This is certainly true when the results you seek doesn’t come right away. This is a failure point for most people. Usually, the desire is not strong enough and so they give up half-way or just before they’ve committed this new task to their subconscious to allow it to work to their advantage.
Get emotional about the results. Paint a picture of your future as a result of the things this new habit can help you to achieve. If you’re not willing to get emotional about it, you can stop reading now because all you have is a wish and the remaining steps will not help you.
3. Learning
I was tempted to leave this step out but it is necessary to the process. My temptation was purely out of concerns that you may get stuck in this phase that you never take action. I don’t believe your getting stuck is because you want to, but that society has taught us that taking action without knowing, in advance, every sequential detailed step is a risk. I say, once you’ve learned what the first step is, take action. And in doing so, you will have a clearer picture of what the next step should be. The first step will expand your horizon and encourages you to take the next.
Suspend the requirement of knowing how and dive in. The only way you learn to swim is by getting in the water.
~Unknown
4. Action
You have to take action. You don’t create a habit by meditating and contemplating the habit. You have to do something. It’s the only way.
5. Repetition
The final and key ingredient to habit formation is repetition. If you’re learning how to do something and you find it hard, keep on doing it. In the words of Thomas Fuller, “All things are difficult before they are easy”. When it’s become easy, it’s becomes a habit. You performed the task so many times until it becomes second nature to you. Your subconscious mind will have taken control of the mechanical know-hows and all you have to do in the future is give yourself the command to execute.
You can draw upon this process to create and develop new habits and beliefs system around the things you want to achieve in life. To commit any task to your subconscious and create positive habits, keep repeating the action over and over. Your physical being will submit to the authority of your subconscious mind and this will help you create the life you’ve dreamed of through your habits. The key point not to miss here is that you have to be intentional in creating habits that will serve you.
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